Saturday, January 25, 2020

A Comfortable Pace

January may be cold and dark, but its got routine going for it and it has a more comfortable pace of life.
Cannon was so happy to get to spend much of the day at a Heroscape tournament with "both" of his older brothers-- Clark and Zach.
May I just take a moment to say how nice it is to have Clark home.  He has an apartment down in Provo (the Glenwood-- the same humble complex Abe and I both lived in when we met).  We don't see him a lot, but it's so nice to be able to see him as much as we want to or need to.  We had a baptism in the Fox family this past week down in Provo.  We picked up Clark  beforehand and got some food and talked.  He stopped home for a minute before the tournament this morning.  He and a friend came and played games with us Sunday evening.  We missed him so much when he was on his mission and it just feels so good now to get to be with him.
And on that note- BYU-Idaho is entirely too far away and I don't like it.  I mean, I do like it for Bethany because she is doing great things and learning and growing and she loves it.  But darn it!  I miss her and wish it wasn't quite so far away.
Elinor is wrapping up the high school swim season here in the next couple weeks.  She is so happy to have overcome her shoulder injury that plagued her for much of this season.  She is excited for water polo to get going.  Now that she is half-way through her junior year, she is seeing the end of high school coming faster and faster.  She is dedicating herself to ACT study and trying to position herself for a good launch into college.  I am sort of dying a little inside at the thought of another little birdie leaving the nest so shortly after the last one.  My goodness, it is shocking how fast it happens.  I swear, it took a lot longer to get them here than to see them off.
I took the youngest three to the Museum of Curiosity last Friday evening while Cannon was at dance.  So enjoyable-- no strollers, so running-away toddlers.  Some people live this way!
That moment when you look at your child and hardly recognize their growing-up body.  Gone are the short,soft, and squishy little arms and legs.  All of a sudden they are more of a big kid than a little kid.  They are long and skinny and looking school age.  So weird how that happens.  He's 5 1/2 now.
In case you are interested, these Thanksgiving Point museums are open till 8 and there is hardly anybody there in the evenings.  It's lovely.
Elinor recently placed 5th in the Student Congress event at a speech and debate tournament at the University of Utah.  She was pretty happy about that.  She is also really, really enjoying (far more than she expected) her involvement with the Riverton City Youth Council.  I love how much Elinor loves being active and involved.  She's inspirational.
Abe and my dad were some of the volunteer judges, but of course, they didn't judge Elinor's event.  Faith was supposed to be in the tournament as well, but the "concussed one" was in no condition to do that.
Over the Christmas break and well into January, I completed this 2000 piece puzzle.  For the record, I thoroughly enjoy a 1000 piece puzzle.  A 750 piece puzzle is like child's play.  But a 2000 piece puzzle is, frankly, more frustration than it's worth.  I shall not be duped again. 

It's Going to Be a While

So many of my thoughts for the last two and a half weeks have been directed towards this girl.  As I wrote about earlier, Faith got a concussion on January 8th.  She was hit in the face by a dodge ball (a smaller, harder one) at a youth activity.  We had hoped her concussion would be fairly typical-- rest for a few days and bounce back.  Sadly, we are looking at a much lengthier, complicated recovery.
She has been to the pediatrician twice and a physical therapist once.  She is scheduled for an appointment at a specialty sports concussion clinic and with an opthamologist (eye Dr.) here in the next couple weeks.
She is still very easily and quickly fatigued.  She is having major balance issues and gets dizzy even walking halfway around the block.  She can't concentrate on any school work and can only play piano for about five minutes before she gets a headache.  She is out of swim for a while and spring water polo is most likely not a possibility.  She spends a lot of time in her room listening to audio books.  The pediatrician had prescribed the lowest dose of ritalin to help her be able to concentrated to do school work, and it definitely did help her concentrate, but I am not feeling like that is the direction to take.   She took about 2/3 of the prescribed dose of medication for about a week and she would read books quickly and thoroughly and then write 9 page reports in cursive.  Quite out of character for her.  So while I do love kids reading and writing with a passion, I feel brain rest will be better long term for her recovery.  Hopefully we can get a clearer picture of how to proceed when we go to the concussion clinic.
She is still our smiley Faith, but she is wilting a little under the inability to do her regular activities.  She went to a this week's temple trip with the youth in our ward.  She didn't do any baptisms, rather just sat and watched.  But it completely wiped her out.  She couldn't possibly have swum in the swim meet last night but she really wanted to go out to eat with the team afterwards.  So I went home to get her and take her.  It turns out that was way too much.  She feels best with little no activity.  So here we are.  I'll try to keep posting updates of her status on here. One of the challenges is that a brain injury is completely invisible.  She looks perfectly healthy, but she does, in fact, have a significant injury that is majorly impacting her life.  We are praying for a full and preferably speedy recovery and we would be grateful for any prayers in her behalf.

Cannon Gets Ordained a Deacon

On Sunday, January 12, 2020, Cannon was ordained a deacon in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  This was a very happy day.  Abe ordained him and Grandpa Cannon and Clark were able to be in the circle. 
His neighborhood buddies were also ordained on the same day (one was the week earlier) but he still came to be with his friends when they were ordained.  These boys have all been in the same ward since they were born.  I remember being pregnant at the same time as all their moms.  They've always been an exciting class in Primary and now they are on to Young Mens.
I like to think of all the adventures they have in store together.  Hopefully, we'll see them all head off on missions together in a few years.  And then I'll look back at this picture and cry.
How can you measure the influence of a good father? 
This past Wednesday evening the youth from our ward did a temple trip to the Draper temple.  How wonderful for Abe to get to go along with Elinor, Faith, and Cannon for Cannon's FIRST time going to a dedicated temple.
I LOVE THIS PICTURE!
The Fearsome Foursome-- I expect we'll see lots of good in the world from them.
We have a wonderful ward family and I am so thankful for their influence and help in raising our family.  I wouldn't pick any other corner of the world to be planted in.

Saturday, January 11, 2020

Bethany's Senior Pictures-- Only One Year Late

Last year when Bethany was a senior in high school, she wanted to get senior pictures done.  For one reason or another, I just didn't make that happen and I felt bad about that.  Fortunately, our photographer for our recent family photo shoot, agreed to take some extra pictures of Bethany with her violin and with her crown and sash for Miss Riverton.  She's happy with them, and Abe and I... well...  we just can't believe our genes combined so well:)















Family Pictures Part 2

There was a lot of laughing during family shots and a lot of catcalling at each other during individual pictures.  The children couldn't be stopped.
Here are a few more pictures that didn't seem to fit on the last post.
These two.  They adore each other and have a funny relationship.
I don't think anything makes a mom's heart happier than to see siblings love each other.





Family Pictures December 2019

Just after Christmas, we updated our family pictures-- and I am so happy with how they turned out.  
It had been over 2 1/2 years since our last ones.  We sort of splurged, but this is a moment in time with our family that I want to remember.
Bethany gets credit for helping to put the color scheme together.  I love it!
Greta-- age 3 1/2

Peter-- age 5 1/2.  If this picture doesn't say it all:)

George-- age 9 1/2

Cannon -- age 11 1/2

Faith-- Age 13 3/4


Elinor-- 16  years 10 months


Bethany-- age 18 3/4


Clark-- age 20


Betsy (Me)-- age 42.  The first picture in which I have noticeable gray hairs-- or rather "sparkles" as my friend calls them.

Abe-- age 44 (almost 45).  Looking good...no noticeable gray hairs.  I don't know how I feel about that:)
He's my favorite person in the world.
We have our flaws, but I am grateful we make a pretty good team.  

My cup runneth over.  

The one drawback of this photoshoot is it was FREEZING cold!
The Foxy Ladies
The Fox Gentlemen.

It's too bad our family struggles with self-expression.
Our photographer was Lisa Moore and we would definitely want to work with her again!